Showing posts with label music. Show all posts
Showing posts with label music. Show all posts

Friday, May 20, 2016

Being Ernest

Growing up, music was a part of our life.
We always had the newest players on the market.
I remember vinyl,  cassette tapes, and 8-track.
Family trips to the cabin kept us away from television (it was never missed).
The Carpenters, Simon & Garfunkel, Cat Stevens and others were always there.
Dancing, is a natural byproduct of music. So of course, dancing was (is) also a part of our life.
Daddy/Daughter dates that involved dancing were ALWAYS attended.

Today, while vising dad, we got to dance again.
After morning stretches, the participating residents have a brief free-style dance off.
An invitation was extended to dad to join them.
He was promptly wheeled over to the dance floor and I followed.
As soon as the music started, I grabbed his hands and we started dancing to Jail House Rock.
Every now and then, I would stop swinging his arms to see if he would lake the lead.
I told him that we danced like this before.
I let go to show him a copy of this picture that was on my phone.

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I put the phone away and returned to the dance floor.
This time, he took the lead and grabbed my hands.
I continued to swing his arms and we danced some more.
I love our visits most when bits and pieces of dad resurface…
even the tiniest ones matter!

Monday, October 19, 2015

the perfect tribute

It has been over 9 month’s now since my mother-in-law passed away.
(Where has the time gone!)

There were so many decisions being made on her behalf during that time.
At least one of her three children were at her side the majority of the time she was hospitalized.
She was seldom alone.

The three of them, together, carefully selected the perfect casket and the most beautiful flowers.
Each decision was made with her in mind.
Asking themselves…. what would she like?
Telling themselves… that is perfect for her.

When discussing the head marker…
her youngest son spoke up and suggested the placement of something music related along with the dates.
There was absolute agreement. It was the perfect idea. The perfect tribute.

It took some doing… but finally… nine months later… it happened.

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There is no doubt she is singing with the angels!

Sunday, August 3, 2014

just for fun…

in High School… this was one of my favorite songs. This video made it a favorite once again.