Showing posts with label giving thanks. Show all posts
Showing posts with label giving thanks. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 11, 2016

Grateful in Any Circumstances

All winter long I watched a man live under the freeway at the exit near my home. Living there alone, in the cold. I noticed that in spite of his circumstances,  he took great care in keeping his "home" clean and tidy. Litter was promptly removed. His meager belongings were rolled up and tucked away when he was not there.

I drove past him all winter long, noticing him, but ignoring him. I would sometimes wonder where he goes when he is not there. If he had enough food to eat. If he was able to clean up once in awhile. If he had a mother to call on Mother's Day.

Today, I left work early to make the day's deposits. I decided to hit a bank closer to home because I wanted to indulge myself with a Swigs drink. (One life's luxury that is often taken for granted.) I was prompted to exit the freeway early and to grab some money out of my wallet. I did...and there he was.

I rolled down my window and he ran over to accept my offering. I asked him his name and introduced myself as well. I then asked him if there was anything that he needed. His answer was unexpected. He looked around and told me with a smile: "I have everything I need!".

I gained a greater understanding of gratitude today! How often have I found myself wishing I had more; something different or new? How often to I look around and realize that I already have everything that I need? How much joy have I lost because I did not see?
Everyone’s situation is different, and the details of each life are unique. Nevertheless, I have learned that there is something that would take away the bitterness that may come into our lives. There is one thing we can do to make life sweeter, more joyful, even glorious.
We can be grateful!  
~Dieter F. Uchtdorf (Read the full General Conference address HERE)


Thursday, March 5, 2015

coming home

Yesterday, our Sister Missionary came home.
I have been anxious about this moment for weeks!
It was all that I hoped for.
The best part, was being able to hug her!!!

For 18 months, we have emailed weekly.
Skyped 3 1/2 times
(2 Christmases, 1 mothers day, and during a surprise visit from Uncle Eric and family)
Seen photos on Facebook and even in the newspaper.
She was near, visually and vocally,
but she was missed physically.

Last night at the airport, I got a taste of what our Heavenly Father wants most…
for us to return home

While we are here on Earth
we worship Him weekly on the Sabbath.
We communicate with Him daily trough prayer.
He guides us through the Holy Ghost and his living prophets.
He is anxiously awaiting our return. It is all that He hopes for.
I suspect His arms will be open for a hug too!

group

Friday, October 3, 2014

boasting

I work full time. I serve in my church. I live in a neighborhood. I have friends.
I say this, not to boast, but to point out that I am exposed to all sorts of people. Often.
I hear many things.
Mostly interesting, funny, and uplifting.
Sometimes annoying, inappropriate, or  irritating.
On thing that irritates me is the constant boasting that is exhibited by a select few.
You know the – my kid was accepted to Harvard but chose to go to State College – type.

I often wonder, are these individuals even aware of how they come off to others?
Me?I Besides feeling uncomfortable being around these individuals, I feel SAD.
Sad that they are so insecure, so starved for attention, so unaware of others,
or even unaware of what they are doing. I also feel worried.
Worried, that I too, can easily fall into this category.

It seems to me, that if we direct our gratitude upward. If we acknowledge all of our blessings and successes to the Divine Being,
the person from which they came, then – and only then – will we be following the example of our Savior.
This was reinforced in my mind as I stumbled upon a Conference talk from April 1990…

In our conversations and conduct we can be much more effective if we avoid the demeaning effect of that which could be classified as boasting. We should wisely let others become aware of accomplishments by observations rather than to have us appear to flaunt them before the world. Boasting diminishes credibility and too often alienates friends, co-workers, family members, and even those who may observe us from a distance….

Consideration for the feelings of others should always be important to worthy Latter-day Saints. Rightfully we may be happy about the number of children with which we have been blessed, the missionaries who have served, the temple marriages of our offspring, and the accomplishments of family members; but others who are not so fortunate may have feelings of guilt or inadequacy. They may have been praying long and hard for the same blessings about which we are boasting. These people may feel that they are out of favor with God.

For this reason our appreciation should be sincerely felt and gratitude expressed frequently to our Father in Heaven
- but not too vocally to the world.

We would all do well to take a lesson from the Savior, who repeatedly acknowledged and gave credit to the Father in all things.

~Marvin J Ashton (read his full Conference address  HERE)

I am so grateful for such great, faithful men of God that are not afraid to teach us the things that we need to hear,
things that will draw us closer to our  Father in Heaven and our Savior.
I am grateful for this weekend, for General Conference where I will once again be edified and uplifted.
Were I can become renewed in my desire, and my actions, to be obedient and to follow the example of  Jesus Christ.…
You too, can watch it live…HERE…  [Saturday October 4th 10 AM, 2 PM / Sunday October 5th 10 AM, 2 PM]

Monday, November 21, 2011

Giving Thanks (day 21)

Today I am thankful for the week of Thanksgiving…

This will be my last Giving Thanks post this year.
Thanksgiving is this week.
So is my anniversary,
So is my nephew’s birthday. (Happy birthday Jacob!)
So is  my niece's birthday. (Happy birthday Ashlynn!)
On Sunday, it is my Sis-in-law’s birthday, (Happy birthday Denise!)

It will be December before we know it!

Sunday, November 20, 2011

Giving Thanks (day 20)

Today I am thankful for leftovers.

Normally, I am not a fan.
When I am lazy and do not want to cook, I dish them up for dinner.
When I have a lot of cooking in the near future (i.e.. Thanksgiving), I dish them up to save my energy.

This week, if I run out of leftovers, there will be cereal!
Then, on Thursday, I will stock back up.

Saturday, November 19, 2011

Giving Thanks (day 19)

Today I am thankful for lists.

I just finished my Thanksgiving lists.
Number of guests.
What to serve.
Who will contribute.
What to buy.
When to start preparing on Wednesday.

Today, I shop.

Friday, November 18, 2011

Giving Thanks (day 18)

Today I am thankful for the Temple.

Because that is where I married my best friend… 24 years ago next week.
Because that is where my daughters want to marry.
Because that is where my daughter’s best friends marry… Congratulations Carson & Heather!!!
(November weddings RULE!!)

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Giving Thanks (day 16)

Today I am thankful for the extended weather forecast.

So far, clear and sunny for the Thanksgiving Holiday.
Safe roads for Tay.
(She is coming home on Tuesday!)

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Giving Thanks (day 15)

Today I am thankful for extended family.

As Thanksgiving gets closer, I am counting heads for the big feast.
The house will be full, and I am so excited.
There are some who will not be here, and they will be missed.

I love the challenge of cooking for a big crowd and finding room for multiple tables.
No doubt, furniture will be moved to another room as in years past.

Sunday, November 13, 2011

Giving Thanks (day 14)

Today I am thankful for Young Single Adults (YSA).

Evan and I have been blessed to be able to serve these amazing group of people.
He was set apart yesterday, as the 1st Counselor the Bishopric for the YSA Ward in our region.
As part of his calling, I too, will be actively serving in that ward.
I will be visiting, teaching, friendshipping, gathering, socializing, encouraging.

As we were visiting with the YSA Stake President when the call was extended,
he likened this calling for us to a mission call. Evan’s eyes lit up. It was wonderful to see.
We will be busy fighting to retain the active youth and seeking out those who need an invitation to return.

We spent our first day of worship with the YSA and I can most certainly say
they were chosen for this time. They are strong. They are courageous.
They bring fear to the adversary… and this is why he seeks to lead them astray.
This new Bishopric is armed and ready for the battle.

Giving Thanks (day 13)

Today I am thankful for opportunities to grow.

Specifically, the spiritual opportunities.
Change seems to be the means for such growth.
Growth can only come if there is room for improvement.
In order to grow, you must be meek.

Growth comes with the opportunity to serve where and when you feel the most inadequate.
As I look back at each calling that I have received,
I clearly realize that each one has prepared me for the next opportunity.
I have been able to overcome fears and short comings.
I have been blessed just for simply doing my best.
I have been strengthened. My testimony has grown.

A new opportunity is forthcoming. Details will be released soon.
But, in the meantime, I thank the Lord for his confidence in me and my family.
I thank Him for the opportunity to grow.

Saturday, November 12, 2011

Giving Thanks (day 12)

Today I am thankful for gratitude.

I am thankful for so many things, I can’t ever mention them all.
Sitting here, each day, trying to single out ONE has been very eye-opening.
There really is…SO much.

I find myself being thankful for even the little things.

  • coming home from work to a clean kitchen
  • someone helping me clean up after dinner
  • talking to Taylor on the phone or texting/chatting…every day!
  • the extra loud, house quaking sound effects of the movie by husband and daughter are watching together
  • the unconditional love of a dog
  • the peace and love I feel from a loving Heavenly Father, especially after He sends a challenge my way
  • the reassurance from my Savior that he will carry me through

Friday, November 11, 2011

Giving Thanks (day 11)

Today I am thankful for compromise.

It is an important concept.
It is valuable for both personal and business relationships.

For example…many of our clients are open on some minor holidays AND
I have a boss that agrees that we should take more of these holiday’s off.

We decided that we can provide customer service and boost office morale by compromising.
We were opened for a half day today.
I propose we consider this option more often.

Thursday, November 10, 2011

Giving Thanks (day 10)

Today I am thankful for friendships.

The friendships at work.
The friendships at church.
The friendships at home.

The funny thing about friendships... they change.  People come and go.

I am sad and will always miss the friends that move.
I am happy when I am reunited with those from the past.
I am thrilled with opportunities to meet someone new.

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Giving Thanks (day 9)

Today I am thankful for Harmons, my local grocery store.

It seems silly, but I love it.
Not for the convenience and the products,
but for the people that work there.

Those that know me by name and use it when they tell me “hello”.
Those that do not know my name, but remember the details I share
as we chat while checking out.
Those that don’t laugh at me (only with me) as I return multiple times
on the same day to retrieve a forgotten item.

Everyone deserves a friendly market.

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Giving Thanks (day 8)

Today I am thankful for the strength to apologize.

I posted this quote recently, but it is worthy of a repost…

Monday, November 7, 2011

Giving Thanks (day 7)

Today I am thankful for family scripture study.
However, it is not the same with Taylor.

For some reason, this go at, seems to be better than ever.
(Except that Taylor is missing)

My guess is, that now that we are a family of adults,
our approach to study is much different.
There are questions and discussions.
There are insights and opinions.

I look forward to the time we spend together.
(I look forward to the visits when Tay can join us!)

Sunday, November 6, 2011

Giving Thanks (day 6)

Today I am thankful for small acts of kindness.

My 2010 New Years Resolution was centered around this ideal.
In fact, it may well be the ONLY resolution I have ever successfully carried out.
Every day, I was to extend a simple act of kindness, or a good deed.
It was so very easy to do. The opportunities were all around me.
When I was driving, when I was shopping,
at home, at work.

What I learned about myself:

  • Watching others do good inspires me.
  • I can extend a good deed. I have hard time receiving a good deed.

My conclusions… I need to let others feel good, by letting them do good.

What I learned about mankind:

  • People are kind and generous like THIS!!
  • Others are courageous like THIS!!

My conclusion… a good deed is a good deed… big or small, they all have value! I believe that without the small deeds, there are no big deeds. Inspirations need to come from somewhere.

Saturday, November 5, 2011

Giving Thanks (day 5)

Today I am thankful for talents.
Specifically, the talents of others.

I am sitting here in freezing cold Rexburg, Idaho, anticipating a choir concert that I am certain will not disappoint.

I am thankful for beautiful voices.
I am thankful for brilliant composers.
I am thankful for encouraging teachers.

Talents also fall into more basic categories too...
The talent of being patient.
The talent of being forgiving.
The talent of sharing a testimony.
The talent of reaching out to others.

What talents do you appreciate?

Friday, November 4, 2011

Giving Thanks (day 4)

Today I am thankful for weekends.

I was planning on taking today off,
but scheduling conflicts prevailed.
I was hoping today would be better than the rest of the week…
it is Friday, after all.

No such luck!
My car decided to ignore the fact that my seatbelt was worn, and constantly chime its alert anyway.
I was on the phone THREE times today with the payroll company.
I had an after hours meeting to participate in.
My “homework” piled up higher than I had hoped.
My car continued to perform its seatbelt warning.

This weekend cannot start soon enough.
I hope to sleep in until 7AM.
I am heading North to Idaho for THIS.

Best part is… Evan is going with me &
Taylor is singing in the choir.